Southwest Florida's Hottest Bachelors 2008

Dave Aronberg, 37, Green Acres
Florida State Senator (Represents Lee County)
Hometown: Miami
Defines himself as: Passionate, outgoing and driven
Favorite movie: This is Spinal Tap
Last read: The Swamp by Michael Grunwald
Listening to now: Rush, The Killers, Bon Jovi
Causes he fights for: Public safety, the Everglades, consumer protection, ID theft protection
He notices first: Her smileIdeal first date: Something casual—I don’t want it to be a job interview.
Topics to avoid: There is nothing off-limits.
He’s clicked with you when: You both just know.
You’ll know he likes you when: I take her to a political event.
Long-time friend says: "Dave’s getting to the point where he’s ready to settle down, if he finds the right woman."
He’d be a good boyfriend because: Even though I’m driven, I’m easygoing and tolerant.
Dating deal breaker: If she’s judgmental or a gossip
Text or call? I’m a texting addict. I have very strong thumbs.
Dating in Southwest Florida: It’s all about timing, and timing knows no geography.
Favorite hangout: Blu Sushi
Marriage? Someday
Kids? Yes
Women need to know: Men say what they mean and mean what they say.
Type of gal he likes: Fun, non-judgmental and intellectually curious
What do women want? Honesty and stability
Why do women … continue to date Tommy Lee?
We couldn’t help but notice … Dave is very down-to-earth and genuine, putting politician stereotypes to rest.

Donald Quiggle, 26, Naples
Senior program director of aquatics and sports, Bonita Springs YMCA. Owns a pool service business.
Hometown: Sebring, Fla.
Defines himself as: Easygoing, motivated and understanding
Listening to now: Coldplay
He notices first: Her smile
Topic to avoid: Past relationships
He’s clicked with you when: I’m having to hold back from calling her too soon. You’ve got to wait at least one whole day.
You’ll know he likes you when he: Invites you hang out with all of his friends.
Long-time buddy says: "He’s looking for a good girl. He’s tired of all the drama."
He’d be a good boyfriend because: It’s my goal for her to feel secure.
Dating deal breaker: Complaining
Text or call? Texting at first cuts out the awkwardness.
Yes, no or maybe—Marriage? Not no.
Yes, no or maybe—Kids? Yes
Women need to know: You take men too seriously sometimes.
Type of gal he likes: Motivated, adventurous and not afraid to voice her opinion
Sexiest thing she can wear: A little black dress
What do women want? To be kept on their toes
Why do women … expect men to read their minds?
We couldn’t help but notice … he really doesn’t know how handsome he is, which just makes him that much more adorable.

Jay Hartington, 29, Naples
Co-owner, Marissa Collections
Hometown: Naples
Defines himself as: Fun, open-minded and curious
Favorite movie: Caddy Shack
Last read: The Audacity of Hope by Barack Obama
On his iPod now: My Morning Jacket
Favorite place to travel: He’s world-traveled, but loves Italy most.
He notices first: Her smile Ideal first date: Dinner at Campiello’s
He’s clicked with you when: There’s a sense of familiarity and ease in conversation.
You’ll know he likes you when: I give her 100 percent of my free time.
When she makes the first move: That’s a good thing—I like strong, confident women.
Dating deal breaker: Being rude to service people
Text or call? I’m a notorious texter, and I hate listening to voice mail.
Dating in Southwest Florida: It’s limited. If you overuse any product, you’re going to get tired of it.
Marriage? Someday
Kids? Someday
Women need to know: Men do not talk about women all day long, and we don’t analyze things like women do.
Type of gal he likes: Confident women who aren’t afraid to follow their gut feelings
Sexiest thing she can wear: Oversized men’s watches. It’s a very European look.
What do women want? Someone to turn to no matter what’s going on outside her comfort zone.
Why do women … talk so much about men? We’re not that interesting.
We couldn’t help but notice … he has a lot of respect for his mother—which is a really good sign.

Trent Ryan, 37, Fort Myers
Corporate director of marketing, Robb & Stucky
Hometown: His parents were missionaries, and he’s lived all over the world.
Defines himself as: Funny, genuine and easygoing
Favorite movie: Pulp Fiction
Last read: The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini
On his iPod now: Metallica
He notices first: Her smile and laugh
Topic to avoid: I’m an open book—in a good way.
He’s clicked with you when: There’s chemistry and common interests connect two people.
You’ll know he likes you when: I’ll flirt and call her nicknames.
Long-time friend says: "I wouldn’t classify him as a player on any level. [The ideal woman] would have to be fun-loving and adventurous."
He’d be a good date because: I’m easy to talk to. I’m uninhibited, spontaneous and a good listener.
When she makes the first move: That’s a fantastic thing. Life is short—if you’re passionate about something, go after it.
Dating deal breaker: Psycho behavior
Text or call? There’s a time and place for both. Texting can be very witty, but there are certain things that need to be heard.
Dating in Southwest Florida: It’s sporadic.
Marriage? Definitely again
Kids? He has eight-year-old twin daughters.
Women need to know: Men can cook and clean, too.
Sexiest thing she can wear: Something she feels comfortable in. If she feels beautiful, her inner beauty comes out.
What do women want? Someone open, honest, caring and attentive.
Why do women … have to go to the bathroom together?
We couldn’t help but notice … his voice is so sexy, he could read the phone book, and we’d still swoon.

Robert Scali, 45, Naples
Independent television producer
Hometown: Boston
Defines himself as: Eccentric, affectionate and funny
Favorite movie: Sleepless in Seattle
Last read: The Secret by Rhonda Byrne
On his iPod: Current hip-hop
He notices first: Her hair
Ideal first date: Whatever makes her feel comfortable
Topics to avoid: Past relationships, politics, depressing current events
He’s clicked with you when: I can feel it in my chest—it takes your breath away.
You’ll know he likes you when: I tell her. I’m past the point of playing games.
He’d be a good boyfriend because: I’m loyal, attentive and I really care how she feels.
When she makes the first move: It’s a good thing. It takes the stress off of me.
Dating deal breaker: Unladylike behavior
Text or call? Text—you can be more brave.
Favorite hangout: The Cigar Bar
Marriage? Yes
Kids? He has a 13-year-old son and a nine-year-old daughter.
Women need to know: You can find out everything you need to know if you ask his sister.
Sexiest thing she can wear: A dress
What do women want? A really good guy
Why do women … say they want good guys, but go after bad guys?
We couldn’t help but notice … he’s a great conversationalist, a good listener and has an infectious curiosity about life.

James Kurnik, 29, Naples
Civil litigation attorney
Hometown: Cleveland
Defines himself as: Loyal, stubborn and passionate
Favorite movie: Tristan & Isolde
Last read: Three Weeks With My Brother by Nicholas Sparks
He notices first: How she carries herself—if she’s classy or seeking attention
Ideal first date: It wouldn’t matter, as long as there was great conversation.
Deadly topic: Once you talk about the weather, it means you have nothing left to say.
He’s clicked with you when: I feel open enough to talk about my family.
You’ll know he likes you when: I introduce her to my brother and sister.
Long-time friend says: "James is a relationship guy. I can’t see him not being a father and husband."
He’d be a good boyfriend because: I’ve never, ever cheated; I’m fun, and my friends add a lot.
When she makes the first move: Sometimes she has to. I’m a slow mover, and if I like someone, there’s no rush.
Dating deal breaker: If someone’s overtly racist.
Text or call? If a girl actually calls, that’s huge points for her.
Dating in Southwest Florida: You can meet good people absolutely anywhere.
Favorite hangout: Absinthe
Marriage? Yes
Kids? Yes
Women need to know: A guy can only treat you with as much class as you treat yourself.
Type of gal he likes: Non-drama queens
Sexiest thing she can wear: Jeans and a tank top
What do women want? A nice guy—but they don’t know where to find one or how to act when they do.
Why do women … crave public attention so much?
We couldn’t help but notice … he wants a woman he can respect. How hot is that?